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Love yourself First.

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  Learn How To Love Yourself I’m sure you read a lot of times this sentence : you need first to love yourself. But what does that mean? Loving yourself means to learn to treat you like a loving parent would do with his child. When you are an adult, and I assume you are, you still have an Inner Child inside you. These are your emotions. At that level you still react like a child of 4-5years old. Your emotions can not get older or mature. But you can get mature. You can learn how to respect them and how to handle them. You can learn how to take care of this Inner Child. When you are not aware of your Inner Child, you try to live in an adult world like a 4-year old boy or girl. You feel all alone, afraid of the big nasty world there outside, not knowing what to do, where to ask for help, how to protect you. This is a very difficult way of doing. You will always feel afraid, fearful,alone doubtful, tired. It is hard to try to survive as a child in a grown up world. You will feel angry ...
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Path to happiness😀

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Money can't buy happiness

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  Money  Can't  Buy You Happiness🙄      I am sure there will be many people who read this article and will think I am rather mad. Quite frankly I dont care. In this article I write about what in my opinion are the most important things in life, health and happiness. All that most of my friends talk about is money: What car do you drive? How much is your house worth? How much do you earn?  How much did your dress cost? Wow how much did your shoes cost? Where are you going on holiday this year? I find all of this very boring and think that they are rather sad. They seem to be in some sort of competition and they are basically obsessed about money. I will give you an example of one such friend,  she never seems to talk about anything else and is always looking into get rich quick schemes. She is also in a lottery syndicate, of which there are about fifty members.  She ikes to go out socialising on a Saturday , however soon gets itchy feet at th...
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Tips to become happier😀😀

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  Tips To Become Happier😃🤭  In a search for happiness, many people look for it in other people and not within ourselves. Many people feel that things like money, a better job, better relationships, soon will make them happy. But in reality, to find true happiness you need to look inside yourself and learn to be your own best friend. That means you have to trust, love, and care for yourself just as you do the people you consider to be close to you. Following are steps that you can incorporate into your life that will help you to feel more empowered and happy about yourself! Never put yourself down. If you don’t like something about yourself, work to change it. If you can’t change it, simply accept it. Don’t beat up on yourself with negative self-talk. You’re not likely to change for the better when you fill yourself with negative thoughts. Give yourself positive rewards. When you do something that you are proud of give yourself a small reward. Don't try to wait for others to ...
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Acceptence

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Acceptence 🤔✍️                  Is it when we first feel the pain of non-acceptance? Is it when we fall into the ever talked about `peer pressure`? Is it when you born? Is it when we fall in love? Is it when we look different? Is it when we become a new member of a family? Is it when we move to a new city ? Is it when we when we do somethink different? Manymore... I believe it is all of the above, when people feel the need to be accepted, they will do leaps and bounds to succeed in this questions. When we fall in love , our entire being wants to feel accepted by our mate. Becoming a new member of a family whether it be through marriage or adoption will create a need to be nurtured as one who genuinely belongs. Starting a new job is a definite acceptance need, we need to fit in so we can relax and apply ourselves 100% to our job. Moving to a new city or even just a new neighbourhood, is very challenging for us and to be accepted and fit in, i...
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